They don't beat each other up for fun.

*nods* Yeah, that. Which makes it so wonderful! But also really hard to write.

And re: your other point -- but what if Johnny was being EXTRA STEALTH? He wears lingerie and corsets for the attention and shows his mum and Galina ("I hope this not mean you having sex, Johnny") and has a laugh in front of the camera and everything, but that's also so no one will take it/him seriously. When he wears it for actual sexy purposes, he wears. lingerie.